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Narcissists often use the same sentences - this is how you will recognize them

Narcissists have a specific pattern of behavior and a specific way of communicating. They tend to idealize and then devalue their partner in the relationship. Here are some sayings narcissists like to say during certain stages of a relationship.

Narcissists initially shower you with love

Sometimes you meet a person and it feels like you've known each other all your life. Often it just means that you feel comfortable with each other.

But it can also be a negative sign. Especially when someone you know very little confesses his undying love to you.

Narcissists often pretend to be anything you ever wanted to be used against you later. They shower you with affection and gifts before they start abusing you. It's all part of a plan to take complete control of you.

Although narcissists - likely - don't date to share their plans and tactics, they seem to act in a similar way.

“It's like they're following the same guide even though no one gave them that guide,” says Perpetua Neo, a psychologist who works with victims of narcissists. "They are programmed almost the same."

There are certain expressions that narcissists use. These are familiar to anyone who has ever dealt with such people.

Here are some phrases that narcissists commonly use during the three phases of a relationship.

Narcissists often use the same sentences - this is how you will recognize them

Narcissists often use the same sentences - this is how you will recognize them

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  • 1. The idealization phase

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  • In the first few weeks, you will hear the following things from narcissists:

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  • 2. The phase of devaluation

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  • During this phase, narcissists may utter these phrases:

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  • To justify the behavior, narcissists often say the following:

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  • They will also try to devalue whatever their victim loves. Your hobbies, interests and family.

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  • Narcissists take advantage of their benefits.

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  • If the victim told someone about it, narcissists will take revenge and make their lives worse. The following sentences are common:

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  • 3. The throw-away phase

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  • They will poison their victim:

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  • It'll only get worse

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This article was published by Business Insider in July 2018. It has now been reviewed and updated.