What prisons in California allow conjugal visits?

10 inspiring facts about conjugation visits

For most of us, our understanding of prisons comes from what we see on television and in movies. From the murky in The Shawshank Redemption to undermine Orange is the new blackMuch of what we see is pretty realistic.

However, there is always some exaggeration and artistic license. In the case of prison stories, the acts of conjugal visits may be the worst offenders. Below are broken down some of the most popular rumors about conjugal visits and show that the reality can be far less exciting.

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10 phasing out

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Despite the prominence of conjugal visits in popular culture, very few states in the United States allow it. In 1993, there were 17 states that hosted some type of marriage visit, the duration and requirements of which varied from state to state. By 2014, that number had dropped to just six states.

In January and April 2014, Mississippi and New Mexico ended their marital visiting programs. This left only four states that would allow it at the end of 2017: Washington, Connecticut, California and New York. California and New York are the only states where same-sex couples have been able to participate in the program.

9 Not sexy

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Another misconception perpetuated by popular culture is that the term "conjugal visit" is a polite way of saying "sexy time". In reality, conjugal visits (aka extended visits from family members) are not necessarily sleeping together. They can be given to relatives, friends or close acquaintances.

This can include immediate family members such as parents, siblings, or children. other relatives such as aunts, uncles, or cousins; and even unrelated ones such as religious leaders, friends, employers, and embassy agents for foreign prisoners.

There are two main reasons for maintaining or reinstalling marital visiting programs. First, given the stringent requirements for such a visit, prisoners have an incentive to behave behind bars. Any violent behavior or rule violation will disqualify them from the program.

The second argument is that such visits help families maintain close bonds. This is beneficial for all children involved. It also helps in the rehabilitation of prisoners when they leave as they will return to a more loving and stable environment.

8 accommodations

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Since conjugal visits are more than just a roll in the hay, those involved will need something more than just a bed and some condoms. But you may be surprised at how much more they are and are allowed to be given. Since visits can last anywhere from an hour to three days and children can be admitted, prisoners and their families are given fairly generous accommodation to allow for a degree of normalcy.

These visits take place not just in a simple room, but in bespoke trailers, huts or apartments that can be fully equipped with a kitchen, dining room, living room, bathroom and several bedrooms. There are also games, televisions, and DVDs. Some even have outdoor areas with barbecues.

Visitors can even bring foreign dishes to prepare, although this is subject to inspection. The accommodations are checked every four hours, including during the night.

7 human right

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The United States is far from being the only country that allows conjugal visits. Although the US has gradually reduced the number of people granted access to the program, India is only at the beginning. In 2015, a petition was submitted to Justice Surya Kant to authorize such visits, stating that except for the most dangerous criminals, these visits were entitled under the constitutional right to "life and personal freedom".

But it doesn't end there. Prisoners fathering children behind bars have been used as an argument against marital visits to the United States. This has been especially true since Michael Guzman, who is sentenced to life imprisonment for murder, married four times and had four children in prison.

Justice Kant's decision means that procreation is a human right. Prisoners are now allowed to provide a semen sample for artificial insemination.

6 Saudi Arabia

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In Saudi Arabia, they take a far different approach to the rehabilitation of prisoners than in most other countries. Believing that making the prison sentence as bad as possible only makes the prisoners worse, the Saudis choose to treat the prison more like a rehab clinic and make it a pleasant place.

In Al-Hair Prison, which houses people who are involved in terrorism but who have not carried out terrorism, prisoners are given a double bed with their own television and shower. More importantly, they have many marital rights.

Families of the convicted are detained and, if necessary, flown and accommodated in hotels at state expense so that they can visit the prisoners. There are 18 suites in the prison that can sleep up to nine people each. These suites offer a buffet, candy, flowers and access to a playground.

Overnight stays are given as a reward for good behavior, but prisoners are allowed to spend up to five hours per month with their wives. If a prisoner has several wives, he will receive several visits per month. Prisoners are allowed to attend funerals or weddings (again, this does not apply to actual terrorists), and they can even receive up to $ 2,600 for wedding favors.

5 gay rights

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You might be surprised to learn that the liberal states of California and New York are far from the only places where gay prisoners can receive conjugal visits. The first Costa Rican court ruling on sexual orientation discrimination in 2011 stated that the legitimate visitors (as previously indicated) would not have to be of the opposite sex. Same-sex conjugal visits have been allowed in Brazil since 2011. However, it is still very difficult to get such visits in Brazil.

Mexico City, while not available in the majority of the country, has allowed same-sex conjugal visits since 2007. In 2013, Israel found that same-sex couples in a civil union were entitled to marital visits, although in April 2017 it was before the first such visit was in fact granted.

4 Conjugal Criminal

Even in states or countries where conjugal visits are legal, there are strict restrictions on who is eligible for them. Criminals judged to be too dangerous, violent in prison, or in federal prisons are automatically excluded.

In the last year before Mississippi ended its program, only 155 out of 22,000 prisoners received conjugal visits. This is due to the fear that the inmates could harm their visitors. No case illustrates this better than that of Klaus-Dieter H.

In 2010, Klaus was incarcerated in a German prison for 19 years for raping and murdering a nine-year-old girl. Nonetheless, he managed to find a friend through the prison pen-pals program, a 46-year-old single mother.

The two were granted a marital visit and locked in an unsupervised room for six hours. When the police opened the room to let her out, they found the woman dead. She had been strangled and stabbed, and her head was bashed. Klaus cut his own wrists too, but survived.

It is uncommon for sex offenders or murderers to receive marital visits, but many people refer to this case when calling for the program to end altogether.

3 background visits reviews

Even if a prisoner has behaved well and is not seen as a threat, this cannot guarantee that a conjugal visit will be granted. Anyone wishing to visit a prisoner in this way must also pass a background check. There are many reasons why the visitor's application can be denied.

Anyone on bail or on probation is automatically considered inadmissible. The same goes for anyone recently arrested, deemed too dangerous, or with a pending arrest warrant against them. However, it would take a special kind of fool to get behind bars while the police are trying to take you in.

Interestingly, none of the inmate's victims are allowed to visit them in marriage. Even if you are married or have forgiven the criminal, your application will be denied.

2 Easy access

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It is difficult to obtain in most countries that allow conjugal visits. Even in Saudi Arabia there are limits to who can get them and for how long. But in Colombia it seems like getting a conjugal visit is almost easier than not.

Bellavista is one of the most notorious and overcrowded prisons in the country. Originally built to hold approximately 1,500 occupants, it is now home to more than 5,000, almost all of whom are eligible for weekly conjugal visits.

The average prison term for an inmate in Bellavista is 30 years. Hence, the prison is looser than most when it comes to inmates who lead normal lives. On average, around 3,500 women are out and about on Sunday alone. However, this can go as high as 6,000, suggesting that some of these men are getting more than one visitor.

Given that most of these men don't have beds of their own, let alone their own cells, it's not hard to see how you could end up with more than two people involved.

1 origins

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You might be forgiven for believing that the origins of conjugal visits were family preservation, the sanctity of marriage, or just men who have compassion for other men. But you'd be wrong Like so many of America's greatest achievements, the origins of conjugal visits to the United States can be traced back to old-fashioned racism.

The jailer at Parchman Farm, a mixed prison, began conjugal visits in 1918. But only for the Afro-American prisoners. White prisoners had to wait until the 1930s to get the same privileges, and women in 1972.

The reason for this was the popular belief that black men have higher sex drives than white men. Satisfying that need would mean working harder. Although it was not an official policy, the guards brought prostitutes so that the men could sleep in the field on Sundays, and conjugal visits were born.